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What will your teen find in At The Well?

Your teenager will discover God’s plan for finding love and pursuing marriage.  As he or she journeys with Kristen through Genesis 24, your teen will find that God gives a wonderful blueprint in the love story of Isaac and Rebekah. 

And while At The Well was originally written for college age and young adults, parents of high school students everywhere are having their kids read the book now so they can begin in the right direction when it comes to love and dating. 

In At The Well, Your Teenager Will:

  • learn to seek God first for themselves (at the well)
  • see the importance of growing in faith 
  • discover ways to use this time to develop character and grow as an individual
  • learn to trust the Lord to take care of this area of his or her life 
  • assemble an idea of what it is he or she wants in a future spouse
  • learn the importance of guarding his or her heart in dating relationships
  • find encouragement for waiting on God when it seems to take forever
  • see God’s plan for equally-yoked marriages and the value of dating believers
  • be encouraged to prayerfully seek direction in current relationships
  • learn the value of following God’s plan even when it may not line up with his or her own
  • discover how to properly evaluate a relationship and recognize the response of his or her heart when he or she is in the relationship God designed

Here is what is included in the Parent’s Pack:

Bible Verses to Pray Over Your Teen's Relationships

With this printable, you will receive ten Bible verses and ten accompanying prayers to guide you as you pray over your teenager’s relationships.  When we pray according to Scripture and recount the very things God has said in His Word, there is power.  Why?  Because by praying according to His Word, we know we are praying according to His will.  As you learn to use Scripture to guide your prayers, you will be amazed how easy it becomes to take any verse and pray with confidence and authority.

10 Conversation Starters to Talk to Your Teen About Dating

Looking for ways to talk with your teen about dating?  These simple and practical conversation starters will open the door to more meaningful discussions.

At The Well Book Club - Leader's Guide

This high school edition of our Book Club Leader’s Guide will allow you to be part of your teenager’s journey in going to the well to seek God when it comes to relationships.  Whether you intend to lead a group of teens through At The Well (and why not!) or you intend to keep it one-on-one with your student, this leader’s guide is full of discussion questions, Bible verses and teaching on love, dating and marriage.

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What Other Parents Are Saying

Kristen Tiber has an artful and authentic way of communicating, and an uncompromising voice of truth on a topic that is wrought with confusion and emotion.

Though the book was written with young adults in mind, I am anxious to read it with my teenage daughters and possibly with other girls from their youth group. I don’t think you are ever too young to begin to look at dating and marriage from God’s perspective. I loved her take on the Biblical account of Isaac and Rebekah, and the way she unfolds their story intertwined with her own to take the reader on a journey to discover God’s desire for them.

There are so many wonderful points but this quote from the book perhaps sums it up best. “Marriage has a sweetness when you’re doing life not only together, but also with God at the head.” Isn’t that what we all want for ourselves and for our children?

Sandy

Great read for anyone, especially singles hoping to marry. This book gives such hope for waiting on God’s timing for a spouse. Teens and twenty somethings are the perfect age range for this book, but, it’s really great for parents and anyone else too! Beautifully written!
Lydia

At the Well is an amazing guide for those who want to find the right mate. Marriage should be for life—and it can be if we find the right one. How do we do that? Tiber’s book will show you how using the biblical example of Isaac and Rebekah. She gives wisdom and encouragement to singles to seek God for their future mate. Absolutely loved it and recommending it to all the singles I know!

Jennifer Hayes Yates

Author of Seek Him First

An encouraging book, for single Christians, offering guidance in the search for God’s will in finding the one He has set aside for them. This book touches on many common questions single Christians have about meeting a godly spouse. Scripture and personal experiences are intertwined throughout, helping to address questions, such as “Is this the right person for me?”  I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book!
Jocelyn

This book so simply and beautifully discusses what is found at the well…not just any well, but the transforming, redeeming and overflowing well of Living Water – Jesus Christ. This is where it all begins, the first step in discovering God’s plan for true love. The author does a splendid job of explaining biblical principles pertinent to understanding this concept. She utilizes biblical passages to support her writing. She focuses on the importance of self-reflection and relationship with God prior to moving into relationship with another individual. I did not have this book prior to my current marriage. Had it been written 6 years ago, my heart may not have been open to the beautiful guidance inside. I am thankful to now have this as a guideline for my daughters (all 4 of mine plus my husband’s 2). I share this with every woman I know; if they are married, they have the ability to forward it to another woman with hopeful impact.
Sarah K.

I loved this book and the story behind At The Well. For me it’s a book that reminded me why I married my husband – seeking the Lord’s will in my life. I plan to share this with my teenage daughter to allow her to seek His purpose in her life. Sweet scripture filled each page!

Hope

I have hosted many single’s conferences and taught at them as well. In my ministry I have had a special place in my heart for the struggles that singles go through. After reading “At the Well” I see that Kristen has summarized so much of what I know singles need. She hits the “heart” of the matter. Great read! I will make sure the people I minister to know about this book!

Pastor Jack

In a day when the media and pop culture cheapens or scoffs at romance, Kristen Tiber’s book, “At the Well,” offers believers wise and encouraging counsel from the Scriptures as they wait to find “the One.” Organized around the biblical love story of Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24, Tiber outlines God’s plan for marriage and, importantly, what healthy relationships look like. Honest and authentic, Tiber weaves the books with her own story of finding her husband, Dan, later in life. She shares about having to learn how to navigate struggles most singles walk through – learning to wait on God’s timing, guarding her heart against heartbreak and the temptation to be “unequally yoked,” and yielding her desires to be married to God’s plan for her life.
Melissa Deming

Hive Resources

At the Well draws parallels between the relationship of Isaac and Rebecca in Genesis 24 and the relationship/marriage preparation of Christians today. The author and I are of different persuasions regarding the ONE or the KIND, but I loved her focus on the need to prepare oneself to have the character and spiritual walk in their own life that they would like to see in a future spouse. The author speaks in a refreshing, open manner that shares wisdom without criticism. A great resource or guide for teens and beyond as they begin to develop relationships with those of the opposite gender, and ultimately desire marriage.
TIna P.

I’m so thankful that Kristen Tiber has provided this much needed message for teens and young adults. Through Scripture and real life examples, she shows us the joy of waiting on God’s plan to be fulfilled in our lives, especially in dating and marriage. I will be recommending this book to the young people in my church and will be sharing it with my own children.

Jennifer C.

This book is full of godly wisdom and Biblical insight to help prepare young adults for the world of dating and ultimately marriage.

Tina

This is a wonderful book for single people to read!! I only wish I would’ve been given this information as a teenager. I think I would’ve made some very different decisions in my life. I love how the focus is on one’s relationship with the Lord first and foremost. This book is full of wisdom. I highly recommend it.

Denise H.

This book is a must read for dating Christians! As a parent of a young dating adult, I found this book as an essential tool to use to guide my own child down the right dating path to finding “the one.” The author provides insightful tips/points to remember while a person is on this journey. Excellent read!
Marla

I can hear Kristen’s passion and excitement for sharing Isaac and Rebekah’s story in her book “At the Well.” Kristen does a great job intertwining her own relationship testimony with the account depicted in Genesis 24. Her writing style is very easy to read and follow. (She finishes her stories along the way!) I will encourage young people to read this book a chapter at a time in order to soak up what is being shared in each chapter. The biblical references and support are fantastic! Thank you, Kristen. I think I need to find a well that I can place somewhere to remind me to meet with Jesus “At the Well” in all of life’s circumstance.

Karen F.

At the Well is an awesome read that gives wisdom for the single, married, dating, and broken type of people. With a Christian perspective within, the reader is able to see what God’s word has to say about relationships. I would recommend this read to anyone who might have questions in this area!

Noah

I could read this book again and again. The author does a really good job of bringing God’s promises for His people to light through the story of Isaac and Rebekah. It was amazing to see the parallels she drew between their story and our lives today. So much practical advice given not only for dating, but really for all areas of our lives.

Tara

This book is like talking with a big sister who can speak wise truth in a time of life has a lot of questions. The advice is practical, doable and will bring results! The author kept it short and sweet, which is great for busy lifestyles. It’s easy to digest but is full of things to “chew on” during the wait for God’s best in a spouse.

Sharon

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